There are many differences in the way people talk about gender transitioning. For example, some people say that FTMs (female to male transsexuals) do not become men, because they always were men (internally). I prefer to see my transition as a process of becoming (externally) the man I was always meant to be – taking on the external appearance of the invisible man who has always lived inside my head.
Some people use the term “gender transition” to mean changing one’s outward social gender presentation, and reserve the term “sex reassignment” for people who have surgery to alter their genitals and other parts of their bodies. You will also frequently see the acronym “SRS” – meaning Sex Reassignment Surgeries.
In my book about my transition, I mainly use the term gender transition. The book is intended for all kinds of transmen, regardless of which kind of medical interventions they use to achieve their goals (and note that some men manage to achieve transition without any medical interventions at all).
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Many people now use the term gender-confirming surgeries rather than gender reassignment surgeries (or sex reassignment surgeries). Chicago’s Dr. Schechter states:
“I call it gender confirmation surgery because I believe that out of the myriad labels I’ve heard for the procedure – sex reassignment surgery, gender reassignment surgery, and sex change operation, to name but a few – none is as accurate when it comes to describing what is actually taking place as gender confirmation surgery. For me, most, if not all, of the other names used for the procedure – or, more accurately, the family of procedures – suggest that a person is making a choice to switch genders. From the hundreds of discussions I’ve had with individuals over the years, nothing could be further from the truth. This is not about choice; it’s about using surgery as one of the therapeutic tools to enable people to be comfortable with their gendered self. Merriam-Webster’s defines ‘confirmation’ as follows: ‘confirming proof; corroboration; the process of supporting a statement by evidence.’ That said, if such surgery helps confirm the way a person feels he or she was meant to be, shouldn’t the name reflect that truth?”
I agree with Dr. Schechter. Terminology has to change to reflect our evolving consciousness. Medical treatment for FTMs used to be referred to as “having a sex change,” and is still commonly referred to in that way by the general population. However, the preferred term is now “gender transition”, and the person going through this process is referred to as “transitioning.” And I suspect that the term “gender confirmation” is very likely to become more popular in the future. As is the similar term “gender affirmation.”
As for being politically correct – the other day, someone said to me, “I know this transgendered person, but I don’t know whether to call then he or she – this person still has a penis.” My response: “The correct and respectful thing is always to call people what they want to be called. It’s really simple.”
The comic strip below reminds us how much harm can be done if we don’t respect what people want to be called.
When it comes to terminology – the only “correct” thing to do is to respect what people want. It’s not about politics – it’s about being polite! And if you don’t know – just ask …
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