Hi! My name is Thomas Underwood. I transitioned gender from female to male 10 years ago, and now live full-time as a man. I have three children and my youngest has just started to transition from female to male. So I have had the experience of transitioning, and now I am experiencing supporting a teenager in his transition. Based on all of my experiences, I have written a book about how I transitioned, and now I write this blog. I have to be stealth to protect the privacy of my son and other family members, but every thing I write is based on my own authentic, lived experience.
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I freely admit that transitioning was a very difficult and challenging journey, emotionally and physically, for me. As I transitioned gender from female to male, I got help and advice from friends, counselors, support groups, websites, and books. When transitioning gender it is usual to need lots of help and advice – it’s a normal and healthy part of your gender transition.

I have had the very unusual experience of living in our hyper-gendered world as both a woman and a man. I want to share my journey, in the hope that it will help others on the same journey. My book provides some of the guidance I wish I had on my gender transition journey. It also provides a wealth of information and resources for FTM people and their supporters.
To find out more about my book, LOOK inside it, and see the full table of contents,
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